The real reason why I’m single

Alright so lets have a genuine moment aside from my jokes
Yes i do want someone who can put up with me for longer then 2 minutes but in general i do have people who have told me they liked me, both females and males. The problem with that is i cant seem to fall for them. No matter how much time i spend with them how much i talk with the, and how much i feel for them i don’t want to be with them. Its a form of protecting myself. It’s not that i don’t want a relationship its that mentally i don’t think I’m able to be there for someone else and myself at the same time, I’m aware i have low self esteem and I’m also very bad at trusting people due to past relationships. I loathe when people try to force themselves upon me because it makes me feel less comfortable with people.

Im my own downfall in my love life because i never let myself be with the people i want to be with
And when i do let myself go into a relationship like that i get hurt. Ive been in 2 relationships the second one ended on good terms, the first one ended so badly i ended up losing most of the people i thought of as friends. Got tired of befriending people through relationships so i made my own now i have people i trust which is yk good.

I just want to feel like my love for someone isn’t suffocating them and i want to make sure they help me overcome the suffocation of my own trust issues

Im perfectly fine with explaining both of my relationships i just dont care to bc like that’d be boring i feel like

  Stick

I'm single right now and I'm ok with that, but I think I might've found someone they don't know but I think I like them and when I eventually ask them I do hope that they'll say yes but if not well, it's just life.

2 weeks ago   Reply

  🔥FlameGirl🔥 (Leader Of Fire...

I’m single too. We in this together. The reason I’m single is that none of the boys catch my eye and they’re just a bunch of knuckleheads. One day ima find a awesome man who I can date then marry

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  🤍PalettePrimith🤍

@alishaweirdd

No cause when im with someone im fine its just trying to get myself to be with someone new, its not the fear of commitment its the fear that i aint enough for someone, gotta remember half of a relationship is self love- cant love someone else if i dont love myself

2 weeks ago   Reply

  @alishaweirdd

sounds like u just got commitment issues now, u just gotta risk it and or wait for someone that can handle u fr🤷🏻‍♀️

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  AnoanTDL

I see. I have a similar problem to bet honest. It’s hard to love, so I just give advice to those who aren’t broken yet. I hope you find your someone someday. Best of luck to you.

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