Idk bro I just start spouting advice. I don’t rlly try to say that I relate to them bc that always seems like their feelings are being undermined but I dunno if being related to helps for some people ヾ(@⌒ー⌒@)ノ (Also, good on you tho for trying to get better for comforting people, very admirable to admit that ur not good at it but still trying to get better<3)