yeah i dont do that but theyve been noticing that i cant relate lol
fortunately they dont complain about it and all my friend said was "i love how andi is the only one without trauma" before moving on
i really think that being able to relate to them would help me genuinely feel for them
i mean not like full on relating as if i experienced the same thing
just uh
having the shittiest day in my life (i dont recall having those in awhile)