- BIG INHALE AND BIG EXHALE - leave him. In my opinion that’s rude to your lady or your mans ( LGBTQ OR NOT. ) that’s fucked. If you.. “ don’t have the rains ” to spend time with your lover then your more then likely dumped in my opinion, like- THE FUK? If they fail to love em’.. dump em’ bro. I’m trying to be a supportive friend but. I’m mad at ur bf bro.