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I did not say that i think they shouldn't receive care, I just think that by not receiving care it can be even worse off and its general symptoms can already put people off. I don't want to focus on the negatives as much as others do, I'd like to learn it from all sorts of perspectives, yet I probably miscommunicated. That's all
I'm confused? Sorry, I didn't mean to put you off or anything, I'm often fascinated by what people have to say about psychopaths, people with NPD and the like. And you're a psychopath yourself? Interesting
Oh of course! It can't be entirely cured, but NPD/ASPD can become an issue as a result of trauma/negative influence whereas genetical narcissism does not, since you do not need to have gone through something detrimental to percieve yourself as that way. I too agree that empaths say those things just to feel powerful, and as much as I like to get into the psychoanalysis of people I'm not gonna figure out all their secrets. There's obviously more to it, and in time people will figure that out.
Yes, we are also practically dissing psychopaths since their main intent is always personal gain and 0 empathy, and whatever else you can name that psychopaths hold
Inferiority is definitely some sort of social hierarchy in humans that can't be helped. For some odd reason or another people bring other people down because they feel powerful afterwards. Like getting mad at someone for having better hair than yours so you ruin their day by insulting it. Why make someone's day miserable because of how they exist, or because of their illnesses? Power. Dominance, its all humans could ever want. Narcissism can be a huge part of this, NPD or not, but what I'm starting to see is more people coming forward and saying things like "we're the smartest species btw" or just downright rude single comments saying "oh!". We are NOT the smartest species at ALL and to even think of us so highly feels so wrong
Sorry for the huge yap you may skim through it.. I agree with the irony of "empaths" trying to act charitable and just not being charitable at all
Unfortunately the world isn't as straight up as we want it to be. People will lie, people will cheat, people will be terrible and that's always due to something that THEY want, whether it's to make another person happy or themselves. It's interesting to talk about empathy given that humans can indulge in topics such as morality and what WE consider to be good/bad. Psychopaths on the other hand, which have no sense of empathy at all, are analysed to be the most capable of enticing others into doing what they want by being super charming or super friendly all in one. They are able to detach themselves from their feelings, from morality to look at the bigger picture and pick for their essentials, while high empaths mindlessly follow (and not to say this in a mean way I'm a yapper for these kinds of things)
However NPD is 'curable' (not sure if that's the right word for it) while genetical narcissism isn't. I think that to be empathetic is to understand WHY and WHERE people come from, and if anything, open yourself to people that struggle in ways you've never dealt with before, becaude that's essentially how you learn to have empathy. The strange lack of empathy these days are what I believe come from a bundle of mental health issues that now go even more complex than just "They struggle to express sympathy to others and initiate for themselves". Its more impulsive than before. I also feel like the people that say they are empaths say it for their own sake and further comfort themselves in the fact that "I did this one bad thing but it's okay because I feel good about it" type thought, though this doesn't go for all those that genuinely are able to connect with others deeply.
the fine line between entitlement and empathy
Hiya just thought this post was interesting and I also wanted to share a similar point. I don't have NPD/ASPD but I am aware that there is a difference between someone who is genuinely doing something for the good of others and personal morals versus a person who does it for their own sake. It is not necessarily bad to do things for yourself as.. like you said, we are selfish beings. If we weren't, we wouldn't be able to survive as such
take me out by franz ferdinand gets popular on tiktok for some fuckass military edit
And as usual.. tiktok ruins music for us all