Hurting you isn't love, If you want to help him mabey see if he wants to see a therapist or you could get him a stress ball mabey, I just don't think it's safe for you to be around him

I just want him to feel better.. he said that when he got let out all his anger on me was because of those problems.

If he’s looking for your body he’s worthless, he lost his job, it was bad, but people get over that. He doesn’t love you he wants to hurt your feelings and be a part of you just to mess with you. You should avoid helping because he’s a part of so many people that he as broken their hearts also so stay away from him. He isn’t worth it.

But what if his goal is to make you feel bad, like it's part of a plan to hurt you

It’s harder for me to do than you think.