Why I Don’t Like Abdel And How He Can Improve

Before you read it this (To Abdel): I am not trying to discriminate or offend you in any way, I just want to give my honest opinion.
Abdel and I were friends, but nothing else really. His drawing has nothing to do with him as a person, so if it looks like I’m insulting his drawing that’s not true. (not saying it in a mean way)
I however, don’t want to be friends with somebody who is rude to others.
When angry, Abdel does whatever he can to make the other person mad. Which is expected of at least 50% of humanity as far as reaction goes. Abdel sometimes crosses the line of offensive and basically bullies people online. Bulling in real life an online are different, but they both usually impact you mentally.
I don’t want to bring ANY examples as it is crossing the line of a opinion to exposure.
What I want to say is that Abdel, you should lay off on conversations when you’re angry, it’s just dumb. Going back in forth with a person isn’t smart, it just puts more pressure on you.
I want to help Abdel understand what he’s doing wrong so he can improve, despite the fact that we’ve never met.
Some people get VERY emotional when you are rude to them, and you shouldn’t be rude in general. Here are some tips for how you can improve:
-Avoid vulgarity when talking to somebody (They must know it’s a joke if it is and cannot be offended by it, otherwise this trick won’t work)
-Avoid getting angry (If you get angry, you don’t think straight. And not being able to think straight will cause you to say/type something you don’t mean)
-Think of how they feel (There’s the simple option of asking if they are okay, but there are other ways to know if somebody is upset on the internet. They usually act different and approach you differently when upset, much like on the internet. Your best choice is to use how they act to know and improve how you are treating and communicating with them)
I’m here to help, not hurt.

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