Uh sure I guess

It's OK. I didn't see it in a bad way, so you're good.

I'm just realizing how that showed up as an insult, I'm sorry I didn't mean it like that

Don't think they meant it in that way though.
They meant I shouldn't pick them because of how hard I'm trying - I think.

"with the amount of effort your putting into them though I don't think you should do me"