Both of you shush because you both are great people,
you both are amazing, and you are just doing best!
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Also it’s okay to step away from a problem,
even though it may seem mean/rude to do.
I would know because I have had to step away from this app multiple times and irl ppl because SHEEESHHHH THE SPICY PROBLEMATIC SITUATIONS BE LIKE THATTTTT.
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Just decide what things you want to help with, set boundaries if you need too.
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Also yes I’ve gone to therapy before that’s how I know this stuff-