Jay and Jordan’s relationship is not toxic
Someone said that the relationship two have is toxic but I highly disagree. Let me explain why.
Okay so basically. These two have been married for a year now and they have 5 kids. 3 are biologically Jordan’s and two are for jays ex. Jay is 18 but has the mindsets of a 12 year old and a 24 year old. He also has some grudges that he holds against his husband (yes I understand that’s not a healthy thing but hear me out) Jordan left after jay had their first son, Victor. This made jay feel angry and hurt since they believed he left because he didn’t want to be a father. Which was not the case at all. Jordan then shot jays best friend Jason for some reason and jay still hasn’t let that go. Jordan once shot after Jason but missed but this made jay angry nonetheless. He yelled at him then proceeded to shut him out. Yes that’s not how you’re supposed to deal with these things but jay has never had a healthy relationship before so he doesn’t know how to handle certain complications that come with being a husband. He’ll sometimes try to take his anger out on Jordan’s weapons but never go through with it since he believes they’re a precious thing to Jordan. He’ll treat his husband like shit then proceed to try and receive love from his cause he can’t bring himself to cope or understand how to deal with the problem. Luckily. Jordan is patient with him and doesn’t they mad when his husband acts up. Jay picked this up from his ex Kevin who used to shut him out when he was pissed off with him too. Jay doesn’t mean to be rude or sound mean sometimes. It’s just how he is but he’s naturally a childish and playful guy.
Jordan’s attitude is completely different from jays. He’s the type of guy who’ll threaten your life when he first meets you. When he’s angry at you, you’ll know. He also has some anger problems and refuses to get along with anyone but his kids and jay. He’s used to jays attitude and jay thinks he finds it amusing since jay is a lot smaller and not as intimidating as Jordan. Jordan’s body is covered in scars. They come from years of abuse but jay sees them as signs of strength and masculinity. The bitting thing that jay always does to jordan is not a way to annoy him or hurt him. It’s just how he shows his love. When he bites down on Jordan’s shoulder, holds him tightly, growls and flicks his tail about means he’s not doing it as a way to show love. That’s his way of trying to place his dominance over him. Jordan just sits there and takes it since jay has done this way too many times. He runs from jay when jay says “you’re gonna get it” because he did some stupid shit and jay is either gonna bite him or tickle him until he apologizes for what he did. Jordan doesn’t want to have any emotional attachments to his siblings since that’s the way they were raised. Jay tried to change this but gave up after many attempts to convince Jordan to try.
So in conclusion. Jay and Jordan’s relationship is not toxic. It just different from an average relationship since these two have completely different lives and aren’t human.
Edit: Jay has slipped up a few times and became a little too sexual to Jordan's comfort but now a days Jay will surpass his sexual feelings 'cause he doesn't want to force his husband to do something he doesn't want to do. The flirty things Jay does to Jordan is just to tease him a little.
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