Being a trans male in school

(this is just to share my experience and look for advice)
Now first some of you probs are thinking that i look like a guy well no- see my dad's never had the best thoughts of LGBTQ+ and my mom's doesn't want to accept that I wanna be a guy so my dad doesn't know and my mom won't let me gmchange with that out of the way I often arrive at school in baggy clothes to hide my hips and chest but I will get bullied saying I'm not girly enough when they find out I'm a guy they normally tell me I'm not I'm confused or I'll get called a slur and be cussed out
It's not a pretty experience when I'm in class this on guy normally says I will never be a guy and when I feel comfortable wearing a skirt they say "see you are a girl" I always try to explain I still prefer being a guy I just like this skirt but they still invalidate my feelings

(Tw sexual assault + depression)
Last Monday I had a dress on my dad forced me to wear I was at school in the lunch line I guy smacked my ass I asked him why he did that he said I was a good looking girl I told him "first I'm a guy and secondly that doesn't give you the right to hit my ass"
He told my that I was a girl and to just accept that cuz I was a good looking girl I went to report him but the principal said they couldn't do anything since I didn't know his name .. Wich I think is dumb they can look. On the security cameras but anyway I felt uncomfortable and I went to class and the 2nd only teacher that's ok with me being a guy asked me if I really felt comfortable in the dress and I told her no she told me to change into my gym clothes (sweat pants and a baggy shirt)
She made me feel better

If you are one of the people that do this kind of stuff to any trans person or any LGBTQ+ person pls don't this can leave serious effects and make them very uncomfortable because of this I got sad all the time I was daignosed with high depression and anxiety because of all the bully + plus some other past things I don't wanna talk about
Don't worry I'm doing much better

Anyone dealing with any of this I'm always here to talk and some advice try to ignore the there comments don't matter and dysphoria is a real thing don't tell yourself you shouldn't be having it I'm here to talk to and I won't judge I'll just listen and comfort bye y'all make sure to take care love you all

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