I would never!!!!

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She isn't the type to trust them, but she called. It's serious...and what I meant in this was that no matter how understandable my mistake is, I feel as if someone will hurt me

That isn't what it means.... and no, it isn't normal, it's serious, a friend once faced this, and it got to the point she called the cops

When I tell my friends what happens at my house... they say it's abuse.... but I refuse to think it is... it just feels normal to me...