That doesn't really explain much but thanks anyways ig

Correct me if I'm wrong but I assume you're talking about xenogender, could you please explain how they're harmful if they were created for and by neurodivergent people to help better explain their gender identity? I'm trying to educate myself more

I don't think they're referring to it as a gender, but they're referring to it as a reason they're connected to masculinity. Not necessarily the gender male, but then again I'm not too sure