Still its brainrotting ASF trying to deal with cishets sexualizing real queer people... mfs used to ship me w my friend bc "we were so gay" and "its cute" go kysydyshdj

Tbh I get what you're saying, honestly I remember not feeling comfortable about romance related things regardless of being queer or not bc it felt like it was all abt sex, but we grew up thinking that was normal so I had to "mature" lmao.
And I'll be honest I'm somewhat an asshole when it comes to queer topics so maybe my first comment was not that considerate haha.

i feel like this is a weak argument.... a lot of toxic content is in hetlove but people are mostly critical when it comes into queer topics. i get "not wanting to sexualize queer people" but the same argument can be applied to straight people, but nobody is critical over it because it's "the norm"

I feel like It's ok as long as they(fujos/himes) dont sexualize queer people.... which is hard tbh half the work is porn and romanticized toxicity😭

yaoi, yuri, hetlove, it's all the same to me