Are u talking this all by pointing to me
Huh???

The second sort of crush, well if it was a relationship, i call it a self esteem relationship, in these sort of relationships, your partner, the one who is using you for self esteem, can be a dick, but they can also just be a really kind and generous person, it’s in a different lens is when you notice it, but here’s the thing, you can still love this person, but you should help them build their own self esteem than relying on lovers to carry them

Ohhhhhh ik and personally ???wdum irl u know them ...??

Well luckily, or unluckily, I don’t have a crush, and if I ever stumble upon such, the person would have to come to me, and I gotta say, the only way I can really have feelings for someone is if I knew them in some level in personal.

Owww oke🤓