Hurting is a cycle
When someone hurts you, it’s usually because they are hurting, no one is born a “bad person” they can be taught values that may be harmful to others. There are many reasons for someone to be a “bad person” but the point is pain can be passed down. Someone hurt me bad, all what was left was anger and people like teens who may not know how to control emotions well could bottle it up and hurt others without knowing or not caring because they are hurting deep inside. Here’s a story (no real names used) I felt very strongly about rose and I would tell sam all about rose. Sam didn’t like the way I always talked about rose. I was entitled and immature about it and I ended up really hurting sam for only talking about rose and ignoring Sam’s feelings. Sam then told rose about everything I said about her. Sam did this to hurt me because I unintentionally hurt him. Sam had lots of bad things going on so everything seemed worse to him. Rose got upset at the things I said and proceeded to cut me off and not be my friend. And now I’m left with all this hatred in my heart because of this stupid cycle of hurting that no one thought to stop. So I decided to stop it if no one else would, I chose to not take any revenge, so here’s what I’m trying to put out in the world:
Break the cycle of revenge and hurting, break it because it can come back to you, break it to end the pain, break it so less will suffer, take your anger and hurting out by writing, drawing, talking to someone about it, talk to yourself, scream into a pillow, cry, listen to music, break the cycle by redirecting it to something else, trust me it helps so much. :) I hope this advice helps some peoples.
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