con trai mien tay

watching VN tiktoks and then i hear my dad's city kinda Mentioned as like. one of the pkaces they put kids up for adoption and it made me think a lot about my own life because as viet kieu i will never know what its like to actually grow up mainland viet, however i'm lucky enough that both my parents are nguoi viet and khong phai nguoi my.... not that having a white family woukf be bad, but it's scary to me imagining a life where i never grew up with vietnamese culture

idk, food for thought or however the saying goes. lots of viet kieu community, but it really does take a village to raise a kid... i wanna say it's because "being vietnamese is all I know," but it's still a scary thought. being ethnically different but growing up completely separated by your culture, i almost feel bad for these people. almost, mostly for the old people in vietnam for obvious reasons. no fault if their own, no reason of evil, just unfortunate circumstances

of course theres situations why families are seperated and it's sad, and that's worse than not being in tune with your culture. but there's still a barrier between them even when they meet together, and that's a little upsetting. spending twenty or more years ripped apart, and when you finally get to connect, there's so many barriers..... so scary

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