๐ŸŽ€~!Princess!~๐ŸŽ€ (Cherry)

Oh to live in a normal, non-toxic family... Is that too much to ask for?

Like damn. ๐Ÿ™
I thought family was about love,, where's the love at y'all?
Like okay.
We may get along well, sometimes. And we may have fun and all. But if we look at the full picture, not everything's rainbows and sunshine...

The relationships between my cousins are messed up. Same can be said with some of my aunts and uncles. (This includes r@pe, manipulation and, abuse btw๐Ÿ™)

Men/boys are favoured over girls/women. (And when I first found out that my grandma ((father's side)) and my father himself prefers my half brothers over me and my sisters, my heart ๐Ÿ’”)

And there's a lot more, but I'm currently not in the right mindset to... vent?? Idk bro.๐Ÿ’”

And omg, don't get me started with my own parents. . ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

I hate how I feel so attached to my family, yet at the same time I want to get away from them.

I hate it I hate it I hate it omg
I feel like my relationship with my parents went from ๐Ÿ“‰๐Ÿ“ˆ๐Ÿ“‰๐Ÿ“ˆ๐Ÿ“ˆand now ๐Ÿ“‰ but I think it's starting to go back to๐Ÿ“ˆ but idek anymore. My relationship with my dad is great ig. With my mother???? Uhh I mean, idrk.

I probably shouldn't be snitching on my own family um
ok
:)

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  Majestic

Cosa c'รจ che non va nel disegno?

1 months ago   ๅ›žๅค
  Kewbic

๐ŸŽ€~!Princess!~๐ŸŽ€ (Cherry)

I don't know if its sterotypical to say families in saudia arabia and religious families still hold the old cultural norms close to them which favored guys over females and assigned life roles to most people. as for the weird things, that probably has to depend on age, many are old enough to know they aren't supposed to do certain things but some still think they can because they're young. If it were an adult with that kinda behavior, even suggestively, they would immediately be able to get jail time for it (with evidence e.e) xd

1 months ago   ๅ›žๅค
  ๐ŸŽ€~!Princess!~๐ŸŽ€ (Cherry)

Kewbic

Definitely not normal things, but definitely are common to happen, unfortunately.๐Ÿ’”
Just for context, I live and grew up in a different country from my family (I currently live with my sisters and parents in Ireland, whereas the others live mainly in Pakistan but also in other parts of the world like Canada, Saudi Arabia etc. ) so things aren't as bad for me, compared to my other family, and I'm not sure if that the cultural difference also influences the toxic relationship amongst my family???

Although, thankfully, in recent times, things aren't as bad as they used to be, at least from what I think and have observed in the family.

1 months ago   ๅ›žๅค
  ๐ŸŽ€~!Princess!~๐ŸŽ€ (Cherry)

Kewbic

Surprisingly, my family is very religious.... So it honestly baffles me why they behave this way??๐Ÿ™ƒ

1 months ago   ๅ›žๅค
  ๐ŸŽ€~!Princess!~๐ŸŽ€ (Cherry)

Kewbic

For the r, I haven't exactly witnessed or experienced myself, but I am aware of it happening in the past, mainly amongst my aunts and uncles who then later on got married... And one of my favorite (female) cousins told me a story of when she almost got ๐Ÿ‡ed by another (male) cousin when they were hanging out together, along with a few other cousins. Luckily for her, she was saved by an older cousin before anything else could happen.
For abuse, there's a lot.
It kinda happens on a daily basis. It's mainly physical or verbal abuse but sometmimes there's also sexual abuse and black mailing/manipulation. I've experienced some like physical and verbal, but yeah. It's a really common thing to happen in the family, and I hate how everyone just moves on from it like nothing happened. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
I feel like favouritism of males over females is pretty self explanatory, boys and money are basically the top two favorite things.

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