This makes a lot of sense now actually. There a helicopter parent. That's really not good for your mental health! it would explain your social skills, anxiety, depression. Gosh.

Okay I’m pretty sure that’s illegal maybe

Not once and a while, perhaps if i were still like a minor at the time then maybe its fine to check in but staying on my tail even when I became an adult its draining

As for my brother . . . She literally put up a camera in his room!

Bruh thats crazy. You need privacy for a good relationship. I would understand once and while but that much is insane. Does she do it to your other siblings?