From my understanding, clorince is likely immature (not as an insult, but as in I genuinely think they may be a child). They have that general artstyle and energy, not to mention that parasocial “post your every thought” mentality. It does not help that their grammar is pretty bad, which assists my theory.
All in all, it does not look like they were trying to ship you with an OC, but rather they were trying to create a sort of sidekick/pal type of relationship. English may not be their first language, or again they could just an actual child and bad at words.
As for the drawing without consent thing, I cannot condone that, especially since you explicitly state that it is outside of your comfort zone. Plus, due to the confusion with their word choice you are likely super uncomfortable and grossed out. I would try to get them to delete their posts, but they probably do not know how.