she has you there for many reasons , you’re the one creating tension as you can’t seem to respect the fact she has boundaries . she’s one of thousands people on here , find other posts to comment on , its clear you’re just here to create more problems in which she wants to avoid .
you say you want to be treated as a normal user and want no issues , but you’re doing this to yourself as a normal user would respect and be thoughtful of others dnis .
just leave her be , and she’ll do the same . :)