If she ever does, do me a favor and if not me then your brothers. Beat the living heck outta her, with words tho, words hurt a lot more and stick with people for a lot longer. Just search for great comebacks against your mother on google and maybe say a few things about the problem. Btw don’t raise your voice too loud so she can’t use that against you saying “don’t you raise your voice against me” or something like that. Also at the beginning sound a little mad but mostly calm. Towards the middle of the fight or when the time seems right keep your voice low and sometimes murmur to yourself repeating what she said. Also if you get grounded you can just say,”Well I’ve grown an interest in books” if she takes your phone away. If she gives you extra chores that just seem like you are now enjoying them or any punishment you are given. Don’t forget about the fight just being you and your mom. Don’t have any of your cousins or siblings come into the fight.
Have a nice rest of your day