As humans, especially before we realize what we are doing, we try to be best. This is nature for most animals; being better can get you a better life.
Now, these people are young. All they want to do is try to be better. That is normally a good thing, self improvement has never really been a bad. But these kids try to be best at EVERYTHING. I can understand how frustrating it is for you, cause I am going through the same thing.
How am I fine? I keep a clear mind, keep track of my objectives, and try to do what I can.
Now for the bitch ass brat lowlife fuck-headed shitbag (Aka the first kid) do what he asks, but dont say anything. Second, I dont know. Also if you do not like this comment please do not get mad, this is a way to help. Sorry for taking you time.