The friend nobody invited :

I'm looking at your replies and sighing, it took you 5 YEARS to realize it ? None of my friendships lasted as long as my beef lasted with you. Not because it ended up badly, but because we took different paths in life. Life goes on crazy fast. Look at yourself, you're soon on age to drive in most of the US states , in some you're even legal. Yet you were 10-11 in what feels like a fever dream. So screwing over someone for life for something they did as they're still growing is not worth it. Unless you're some sort of sociopath that likes seeing people suffer. And I swear to God a scary amount of people have developed a victim complex only to flag someone's behavior it's crazy. If you're harsh or your personality doesn't consist of meat riding people for " good person " points then you're a HORRIBLE person, God forbid a guy refuses to be a people pleaser and that I'll say the truth as it is.

It's when I see replies like these that I realize the insane maturity gap. I'm ngl I don't even know why I'm arguing with them in the first place. I know I just said it earlier , for closure. And no matter if they end up giving a total jerk response or one where I could feel like they're maybe not a lost cause , at the end of the day it doesn't matter much because I'll finally get that closure and I will also quit this app for good , I mean I already did , but this time it'll be more , it'll be emotionally.

My pessimism as you say may be caused from piled up trauma. But I doubt you gaf yourself.
Plus I'm not pessimistic I'm realistic. So far I've just been saying facts. In no universe I see them think deep and say " yk what you may be right , these are some solid points here ". You've seen how they talk ? It was over before it even began. I just wanted to give my 15y self the closure he deserved. By giving the intelligent , mature and nifty points my past self was too scared and didn't had the ability to give. And I did.

I'd gladly take your prayers and wishes , I have nothing against you in particular. So please let's end this on a pleasant note as we'll never see each other again after this , have a good life and God be with you 🙏

I doubt they'll accept reconciliation. I held into a naive hope deep within me but once I saw the text they sent I lost all of it. Crazy how they think that bringing back 3 to 4 years old facts is a " gotcha ". I just wanna see their reasoning and if there's any more way of them to double down. and dig deeper.

Dude I'm crying what part of " idgaf " don't you understand ? This was never about you and you're over there telling me life facts on yourself.

So far all you've been doing is ragebaiting me , I could understand the pronounces issues as the least little form of respect I owe them is to use their correct pronounces. But c'mon , completely ignoring my message and say " Don't use the Lord name in vain " are we deadass ? Are you even religious ? You couldn't even find a proper answer. This isn't about you anymore. <3

11/10 ragebait

Once again I don't gaf , 🙏
And sure I'll read their response but I kinda already have an idea of what they'll say
" Your age doesn't excuse your actions " or some crap like that. Dude , I'm 20 , wherever they like it or not I grew to be more mature, more mature than them , I don't think they realize the character development I had in the meantime. And then they're gonna say predictable crap like " you still screwed up in 2022/2023 " ... Yes ? So what ? Do you want to " Spread awareness "
Are you going to somehow try to milk the dead cow ?
We're in the front door of **2026** , these events are soon respectively 4 and 3 years old , I still had character growth , but I cameback and found them to be the exact same annoying circus show they used to be when I was 15. I can't wait to see their response so I can give a physical clap , pull my hat down before officially never stepping a foot in this God forbidden site ever again.

See now that's something I kinda dgaf about.
You can dislike me for being a loser and I'd say yes because we all have different point of views its fine.

But saying false shit like I'm a pedo racist and stuff is something I don't have the strength to deal and go back and forth with it. I cleared up all I had to clear up and let out what I had on my heart for years. Despite all the crap we might not see each other again ever so I wish you a good life

Ngl I’d rather not even bring these people up, but the last “grooming” incident pinned on me was in 2023 when I had just turned 18. The person was only 1.5 years younger. The backlash was so intense it stopped me from even trying to date for nearly 3 years. In that time I’ve been banned from servers, lost friends, lost opportunities. Sure, my account still grew, I have 7k followers today, but who knows? Maybe I’d be at 10k or more without those accusations. And yes, accusations is what they are, false. From my side, I was innocently trying to edate. But online, anyone can be painted however people want. Ppl will throw their own mutuals in a SHREDDER for 24h of clout, how’s that reliable? If we want reliability, let’s go by laws, not public opinion. As for “Beanz,” our beef lasted half a decade, literally, and I genuinely hope this is the last time I ever have to even interact with them

Look , as a french person and a person that lives in a first world country I'm aware of the luxury and advantages I live in. It was wrong for me to use them the way I did and make these remarks. I believe that everyone is lucky to experience their own culture. And that clashing yours with some other people's is wrong , that is the root of racism itself, so no , I no longer hold these believes.

Check up law texts then , there is no more reliable resources than laws text , and even these are still not 100% reliable as there is some difference between states , countries , and between cultures. But I just follow these moral basics :
If they're 18 or above , it's all good , if they're 17 , no sexting , and keep an eye open , if they're 16 obviously no sexting and You've reached the limit , as in most states , you cannot attempt anything below that , if you do you're 100% a pedophile.

Oh I didn't know her pronounces , as unpleased as I am I can at least have the decency to respect that , but I don't know them

It doesn’t take a genius to know I’m neither a groomer nor a pedophile. A reasonable age gap is 2 4 years max below that, there’s zero excuse. I know my limits, I know the danger zone, and I’d never cross it. If I were caught with a 15y, I’d be cooked, so I’d say no right away. 15 isn’t legal. But a 1–4 year gap? That’s fine. People just love throwing words around , the clown above proves it: “haha groomer, so funny.” Meanwhile, that label can ruin your life. Pedo fear has gone too far. We’re sliding into dictatorship in the name of “minor protection,” forcing IDs for basic apps. Truth is, minors shouldn’t even be online, especially as young as she was. I was never a groomer, never a pedo. And I’ll never forgive her for calling me that, because it will never be okay.

Pft dude , if it can help I make Spamtenna and Suselle art , which is respectively a gay and a lesbian ship , back then I was a raging homophobic, but see how time changes a person. Ofc that's only one of the many Queer ships I've drawn. I've made 205 full blown illustrations these past 3 years. And a few animations too. So I've turned out to be an ally , and by that it also means I'm no longer racist , since the LGBT community and BLM movement walk side by side. So you don't have anything to fear. I just hate that fraud above in particular for being a circus show. Dude it's been 5y and she's saying " Abdel in 2025 " bruh , literally she's one of the rare people that remember my previous name I live rent free in her skull , I fell upon her page simply because it was on the front page then when I saw her username I had a flashback, she needs to know she is NOT important 🙏

But watch her say shit like " you're playing the victim now "
Or " poor guy ,, can't accept the consequences of your actions ? " While it was just me doing the wrong thing , right but action to consequences ratio is too unfair. You dm someone and ask them to possibly your partner , then they make a callout post on you for being a " groomer " and you get fucked for LIFE for making them uncomfortable ONCE.

Let’s not act like people aren’t naturally cruel in conflict. The racist/grooming accusations thrown at me since I was 15 resurfacing in 2023 gave me PTSD. I cried over getting cancelled. Cancel culture isn’t about “awareness, ” it’s about clout. People don’t realize that whatever mistakes someone makes don’t compare to 1% of the pain of losing friends and followers you spent years building Like what happened to solving problems privately? How much of a pussy do you have to be to publicly say “I got groomed” (a serious accusation btw) when truth is it was just a guy trying to have a gf. Can’t a guy try no more? It traumatized me so badly I’d wake up every morning to check if my account was safe How can you label a teen a predator while actual 40y creeps roam free? Simple: clout, and the satisfaction of destroying someone’s base. And yes, I was racist 3y ago. But what “awareness” are you spreading by recycling that? Can’t a person change?

I'm genuinely sorry , my reason of coming back is that somehow, deep inside of me , part of me wishes I could go back and fix my mistake , but I'm aware of how late it is , this app is basically a corpse , no one maintains it. It's dead and it's running on its own , everyone left. I have so many regrets dude. Most of the things I said I didn't mean them and I in fact regret saying them. I have an explosive personality and when I get frustrated expect me to explode right into your face. That's me now , but it takes a HUGE amont of ragebait to push me this far. I've now matured up and learned to control my emotions , now imagine my past self that didn't know how to restrain himself and be hella self destructive. Because yes by actively disrespecting people I knew I destroyed my reputation, but I didn't care about the backlash or fallback, I cared about hurting people, that hurt me ON THE MOMENT.