Whos r?? (If u dont mind answering that)
Also if this person rlly died pls dont make it about urself
The worst thing u can do whilst trying to be sympathetic is say "i" or "my"
Sayjng im sorry and stuff is fine but making it ab ur self saying (for example)
"Its my fault and im stupid" is kinda petty ngl
Also strangers dont need to know about this so pls next time either put a trigger warning or talk to close people instead