Dating for benefits and not romantic feelings (kicking my feet, day dreaming) and we kiss and do normal couple stuff but without romantic feelings (i smile like an idiot, planning our marriage so we can reduce our taxes, and we share social security benefits)

"Not all men/aren't you a guy?" I don't care, either he's going with my masterplans for tax benefits or he's out

gender doesn't affect this i'd be fine in a relationship with a man (regrettably.) if it meant tax/marriage benefits but i'd prefer a girl because I'm straight

well. heteroflexible but i'm a stubborn man who really really dislikes men

And my npd demons hates everyone but that shit dont matter as much. i think the most my love will ever be expressed is saying they can share vyn, which is extremely rare

I think the biggest thing that helped me come to terms with being aromantic is that relationships do exist without romantic attraction, and I can date for all the benefits a romantic relationship has without romance, which is awesome! but i'm currently not looking, because I'm nearly repulsed at the idea of my "romantic attraction" being reciprocated. I'd prefer a narc4narc aromantic relationship.