the long writing doesn't matter, more details is better. If someone does something bad, tell someone like your parent, and if she doesn't care for some reason, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline in a place where you don't want your parents to find out. You should not be ashamed for avoiding abuse, and your family shouldn't punish you for it. this is a really tough situation though since your family is the only place you can only really rise and be educated in, and without them you'd be an orphan despite any emotional connections with your parents, putting them through the legal troubles they face sounds incredibly difficult... so I do not know how to help that well.

Idk I feel bad because I've been like this ever since I was about 6 when I lived w my brother's father who was abusive, i always think I imagined it or I was overthinking it and now it's happening again and I think I'm going through something that's causing me to be like this.. i wish I could do smth but I gotta wait and have faith in my mama because i know it's not easy for her especially cause she's not here in this country and our house is almost finsihed building and i just feel so fucked up, i don't wanna be the reason the family falls apart again and I know for a fact if my dad or anyone from his side of the family finds out in cooked. P.S sorry for the long writing 😅

Honestly he was gonna get jumped but i pleaded for them not to cause it'll be my cousin's, sis, brother, mom, uncles, aunts and MUCH MORE, no one likes him literally, but thank you

Thenk you girlypop 😊

if he did that, it's illegal, there's literally no defense to that?? that's absolutely disgusting of him, especially since they're a family member. you should make sure they know he's a bad person, reading this made me think that you think 'you're in the wrong somehow', when you're literally the main victim, you should be worried about your siblings and stay protective of them, huge red flags for your stepgrandpa