What? He's so shitty ..your problems DO matter and what happened to you , your not being over dramatic atall. And if he's asking for pictures and your not comfortable with it he should respect your boundarys. I really hope your okay , sorry I'm not good at giving advise

"just because you were groomed doesn't make you a victim" is actually so bullshit I'm so sorry:( that's horrible and I hope your ok

Woah, that ain't gd, i hope you don't make any wrong decisions, (feels weird giving advice to someone older than me, sorry if it sounds trashy) forcing you to send is not ok, love yourself and uhh fuck them(respectfully)

It's just that I don't like it at all when people mistreat others, especially if they're people I know well. I'll try to do anything in my power just to keep you and my other friends safe, no matter the cost because that's what friends are for. Now listen to me, I want you to not sugarcoat any of this, just tell him straight up. Tell him how much it hurts you, tell him how you feel about it, tell him everything, because if you don't he'll bound to keep on doing it and you not telling him will just make it worse by piling up inside you like trash on the beach. And if he physically hurted you I want you to hurt him back the same way but just keep on doing showing no mercy and give it all you got because people like should die and no one should ever be treated like this. I know it sounds harsh but I don't fucking play around to stuff like this. I've met people like this that it made me want to smash their head into the wall and stomp on their face untill I see their skin peel off.

I’m NOT here to tell you how you should handle your relationship. Just here to say: your feelings are valid and they should be treated as such. You are not silly or attention seeking by telling someone no to something, ESPECIALLY if it involves trauma of such sensitive present. I’m not saying that you should breakup (that’s your choice and it’s my belief that someone as irrelevant to you as me has no right to be boycotting ur dude) but I AM saying that the way he’s treating you should not be looked over or submitted to. I hope he can either learn to support and understand you or you let you find someone else who will. Sending love, support, and a listening ear.