You know what you should do? Once they start bullying you record the audio with your phone. Proceed to tell an adult and when they say YOU bully them, show the adult the video.
Thanks for the advice odd (sigh) I wanted to get this off my chest because most of the adults think it's either "autism" or "she is just growing up your the older one it's just a fart in the wind" or "deal with it" UGH