Lol, sorry I didn't see this til now. She's a lil old lady and gets cranky easily so I try being as gentle as I can with her -w- She also doesn't cuddle much so when she does I stay there for as long as I can :)
It's alright! Thank you for the answer. Yes cats are pretty willful and wild. One of our cats wonβt let me touch her and she is only one year old. They do not live in the house but in the yard.