Dude, ima give you some straight edvice, if there forcing it out of you like that, they probably don’t want to take there time and listen to what your really going threw they probably just want to get it done and over with and that’s not ok, the kinda shit that they’ve pulled (Based on what you wrote) isn’t ok, I’m not saying break up right here right now, but you should think it over, and see if you check this critical thing (It’s a list) they make you feel like any mistake you do is world ending, they make you feel like your walking on egg shells around them, you feel bad talking to them cause they push you out of your comfort zone, and they don’t really listen to what you want them to.
If some of those are true you need to talk it out with them, but if they lash out on you then, we’ll the choice is yours