not hating on you or anything but yeah, dating an 11 year old as a 14 year old is pretty weird. i get the standpoint that “my parents have a huge gap” but it isn’t applicable to this because an 11 year old and 14 year old have a huge gap in development. an 11 year old and a 14 year old is a much wider developmental gap than a 30 year old and a 33 year old. i’m telling you this to be constructive so please don’t misconstrue this as me cancelling you.