Lack of confidence can be a bit of a punch in a face for those types of things, Having a lack of topic to converse to, Or Having a generalized conversation, But I'll have some ideas, Even though I am late, Either about life or about struggles and past mistakes with that person, They might listen and answer, Even if the alignment is different to yours, They'll try and see through it, BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO REALLY REALLY, just really go up into a person and say, Hey wanna talk about life?, Well that'll be a next point I guess, But you may try and have one, Being shy is mad difficult, But get through it I guess, It'll be a process.