and gender identity is like the biggest part of why i refuse to date and it sucks because even after getting on medical transitioning i know some people still see me as a girl and it sucks like yeah i don't mind being called girly but ugh i want. To date someone who will see me as a pretty boy not as a "confused girl" and i hate it and i want girls to like me but i don't want to be an experiment this is the average transmasc dating experience isnt it