Congratulations on the 80 followers (My go to advice ere!, When it comes to being friends with someone and you wana tell them about your problems, You must first to see of their attentive and observant and critical and will be there for you no matter, But that is rare, Seeing if your friend is either good or bad is benificial and will be absolutely needed for you to step up and tell your dear friend, Some may look good on the outside but on the inside its full of evil and bad intent.)