Being honest about smth i hate when yall say it

You guys constantly tell me to like be open with how i feel so this is like smth im gonna get off my chest

I dont like when i announce that im gonna do something or post something then you guys rush me and say smth like no pressure or not to be rude
Like i understand your not coming from it at a bad angle but thats how i take it
When i announce im going to post a big project yes ill let you guys know when and ill try to be on time but when it comes to announcements about like things i hold highly it pressures me and makes me feel like shit

Its like going up to someone and saying oh btw your family member is in surgery and might die but no pressure

Its especially worse when people say not to be rude
Like if im doing your challenge or if i havent posted yet i have a reason just ask it
Dont say not to be rude cause it pisses me off then i genuinely just dont want to post it

This isn’t directed at anyone specific as a lot of people have done this to me but im just over it and its genuinely starting to annoy me

Sorry if thats like bad or whatever but im at a point where i have to have a non people pleasing moment and stick up for me

  LeelaWiffWaffles ( Quit ) (...

I haven't done this but I will make sure I WILL NEVER say it

5 months ago   Reply

  Mini muffin

As somone who I know has done this I'm really sorry if I stressed you out, I had wanted to give ideas not force you to do them or rush you into it <3

5 months ago   Reply

  ~☆BadAnimationz☆~

What I do now is just never really tell anyone what I'm doing anymore unless the thing needs to include others (that is for social media tho). It's okay to keep secrets, i have kept many. You may feel guilty like me in the past, but eventually you'll notice it's not always bad to stay silent.

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