Oh, ok! I’m glad to hear that!
You don’t have to feel guilty lol
I’m sorry to hear that. I’m more than happy to explain, it’s just a bit complicated.
So there are the basic he and him pronouns, and then there are the basic she and her pronouns.
However, people also use they and them pronouns. I know in Spanish they’re usually used for several people, but people use them to mean multiple people and/or not knowing someone’s gender and/or the person is gender-neutral. I don’t really know how to describe gender neutral, but it’s basically just when you still have a gender but you don’t identify as male or female.
Sorry if this is still confusing, I’m not good with general questions, if you have any more questions im happy to answer them!